Voting Question: How does a white man get a black woman to lower her barrier and accept an introduction with enthusiasm?
I asked this question before so let me add some detail. Here are some openers I have used that were authentic from the heart comments to women playing slots ibn a casino: “Excuse me, you have the most magnificent hair I have ever seen. May I ask how long it takes for you to get it like that.’ Or…..”Is that a lucky machine? No? I used to work in a casino, let me show you where they keep the lucky ones.’ Or if I have seen someone before playing a machine I will tell her “I cant believe this…I have been here only 3 times in my life and all 3 times you have been here. Is that possible!!!?” Or if I feel like being silly I will say, “you need to talk nicely to the machine. It has feelings like a real person. Maybe it will treat you better if you tell it something sweet.” Or at a wal-mart I will ask a woman if she needs help pushing her cart. Answer is always “no thank you.”
Anyway, I have tried dating services, I dress very cool. I am age 48, have an athletic body and speak very educated. If a woman tells me she is married which seems to happen over 50% of the time, I ask if she has a twin sister for me, and they always, always say no. What can I do to attract a black woman to me. Some of you have said black women dont want to feel like an experiment, but thats not fair. Every white man wanting to date inter-racially has to have his first white on black date. Besides my ex-wife is black anyway. Im just a so-so looking guy. Many people tell me I look like Ray Romano or Jim Valvano the basketball coach. I dress very well and try chatting with women both in casual and also in dress clothes. In fact, Im surprised that although I wear jeans a lot, sometimes at night I wear slacks, you know, dress pants that actually have a seam in it with classy shined shoes and a killer black long sleeve shirt with a nice collar and still….nothing. No interest from any
black women. How can I find one to settle down with or at least get a few of them to date me?
I know some black women prefer to stay with their own people, but all of them cant be like that. I approach women from 25-50.